From November 11th to December 6th, Venus (the planet of love and connection) passes through Capricorn (the sign of consistency and hard work), and the steady support of this transit is right on time. This is a moment to commit — really commit — to the pockets of ease, stability, and pleasure that are available to us even amid challenging times. So heed its invitation to honor persistent acts of self-care. Embrace the comfort of friendships built on dozens of inside jokes. Establish boundaries that help you express your desires. And circulate “no thank yous” that protect your peace.

Venus in Capricorn teaches us that a little diligence can be the balm that revitalizes our bonds. That reliable routines like regular brunch dates, therapy sessions, or houseplant watering sessions can reinforce our trust in our attachments. That when we strengthen these structures, they soothe our nervous systems in return.

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A safe place to land

After a particularly dramatic election season in the US, Venus’ entrance into Capricorn brings a stabilizing force. Here, the planet of connection offers an anchor of care, kindness, and commitment to our communities. It reminds us that our systems of support persist — and sometimes they require us to check in with our loved ones (and ourselves) like it’s our job. This is the perfect time to pencil in magic hour catch-ups to tell your besties how much they mean to you, and to establish the solitary rituals that allow you to show up in your relationships.

Within tumultuous periods of history, our pledges to our fellow activists, to our networks, and to one other are crucial. This transit invites us to be each other’s pillars — to share the sometimes overwhelming weight of the world. And to remember that practical acts of grounding go a long way, even if it’s something as simple as hopping on a Zoom call to breathe with your chosen family or pausing to enjoy a cup of tea in the sunshine.

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Sweet devotion

On a personal level, the role of art and beauty in our lives is also about to get more serious. Just as the calluses on a guitarist’s fingers demonstrate years of honing their craft, Venus in Capricorn shows us that dedication is the main ingredient of virtuosity. Devoting your energy to the people and practices that have stood the test of time is a gorgeous way to honor this transit. Instant chemistry is all well and good, but there’s something even more satisfying about an old friend who remembers your favorite sorbet toppings. So surprise your nearest and dearest with handwritten notes of appreciation, celebrate the endurance of your bonds with matching tattoos, and draft your shared five-year plans. Venus in Capricorn understands that consistency is its own pleasure and pouring time into your loved ones is its own reward.

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When Venus — the planet of love, pleasure, and beauty — moves through Sagittarius from October 17th to November 11th, our hearts heed their own wild calls. In this mutable fire sign, Venus finds the journey far more thrilling than the destination — especially when there are exciting detours along the way. Spontaneity is the name of the game, so don’t try to pin down Venus in Sagittarius for a specific date and time.

When it comes to friendship, romance, or creative expression, what motivates Venus in Sagittarius is the desire to tell a good story. Even if you’re not the type for grand gestures, the coming weeks are ideal for defining the larger arc of your attachment style, or for alchemizing a past disappointment into your next epic poem or comedy routine. And there’s something to be said for the magic of sheer enthusiasm when a relationship is stuck in a rut. Throwing caution to the wind and saying yes to a last-minute camping trip or dance party can reinvigorate your connections — and remind you that sharing novel experiences is the best bonding strategy. This transit teaches us that love is ever-expanding, and exploring its faraway horizons is well worth the risk.

As Venus travels through Aquarius from December 6th, 2024, to January 2nd, 2025, our bonding styles lean toward the brainy and offbeat. Think: “would you rather” questions as icebreakers or friend dates at the science museum. This innovative, intellectual air sign may have a reputation for avoiding the sappy and sentimental. But the planet of love, pleasure, and beauty is anything but dispassionate in this placement; here, it’s gifted with the ability to consider our most intimate unions within broader systems of human connection. Venus in Aquarius understands that every act of care — from helping an elder with their errands to rocking the status quo through a grassroots movement — makes waves throughout the collective.

If you’re yearning for a relationship reboot, this is an ideal moment to seek out meet-cutes at the peace rally or enroll in a coding boot camp with your BFF. This transit also encourages us to show some affection to our inner eccentrics, disruptors, and utopians, so ask yourself what heretical impulses you could alchemize into art, activism, or simply having a good time. Just be wary of withdrawing into aloof analysis when challenging emotions come up, even if this detachment is temporarily protective or soothing. Venus in Aquarius is an expert at recognizing patterns in intricate social structures, but it can sometimes forget to factor in messy, illogical, and unpredictable variables in its calculations. When a feeling refuses to compute, take this opportunity to celebrate everything unquantifiable that you hold dear. And pay no mind to the normies as you commune with others who share your commitment to keeping it weird.