October 5, 2025
If you want strong relationships, you’ve got to build trust. How to do that? For starters, communicate honestly and directly. The next few weeks are a good time to lower your guard and ditch any defenses you may be hiding behind in your closest bonds. When you dare to share how you feel, even when it’s scary, you allow people to witness you and love you for who you really are — not just a buttoned-up version of yourself.
Continue readingOctober 4, 2025
Your idea of a good time is meant to evolve. It’s okay if the hobbies, flirty exchanges, and creative projects that once excited you aren’t lighting you up anymore. But if you want to make more room for having fun, you have to let go of the habits and interests that you know you’ve outgrown. This shedding process may be uncomfortable in the moment, but it will bring you deeper satisfaction in the long run.
Continue readingOctober 3, 2025
Tackle your to-do list — and use your imagination while you’re at it. Yes, chores can be boring, and yes, they can get annoyingly repetitive. But you can control the stories you tell yourself about your unglamorous tasks. Flex your ability to hold multiple points of view, and broaden your perspective in this part of your life. No, that won’t make all your work go away. But getting creative with your words can make a powerful impact. At the very least, you’ll have a little more fun along the way.
Continue readingOctober 2, 2025
Check in with your group chats. Over the past few weeks, you’ve been evaluating the friendships, communities, and social circles you’ve committed to. Now it’s time to be honest about how things are going. Start by pinpointing what is and isn’t working. It’ll help you clarify where you might need stronger boundaries and where you could benefit from a little more flexibility.
Continue readingOctober 1, 2025
Your ideal schedule won’t make itself. Start by brainstorming ideas for new ways to tackle your to-dos. Even if your plans aren’t fully polished yet. Drafting up a dream routine requires naming what choices already are, or aren’t, working for you. And be honest.
Continue readingSeptember 30, 2025
You can take as much time as you need to process change. As the dust from eclipse season settles, reflect on what’s been shaken up in your creative projects, romantic life, or friendships. It’s okay if you don’t know how to calm things down just yet. That’s part of growing. Accept that things are shifting, and stay curious about how it’ll all turn out.
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